Told the last of my colleagues about my transgenderism today - and that I'm
intending to change gender.
mostly positive - completely positive in fact...though reactions varied. My male colleague was completely unaware of anything untoward. Had not noticed, even the rather obvious nail varnish of the past few weeks. this despite the fact they I'd waved them under his nose a few times. Nor the "Charlie's Angels" hair. Nor the women's tops I'd been wearing since May.
Two female colleagues said they had already figured out something was going on and the other two were surprised but supportive.
This is an ongoing process which began with my boss and my flatmate back in May and crescendoed when I told my sister in June. now I feel stupid about not doing all this years ago - what a senseless waste of my own life!!!
People tell me I'm happier. I feel happier. I smile more. I talk to people. I feel like Stella even when I'm being Noamy, which helps....
.. and this is all since my trip to Wales in May....the life changing trip to Wales.. now how many people can say that?
This is my main blog - it's been going since 2004. It was originally my personal diary but has expanded to something more sophisticated, thanks to Blogger. Most articles on this site are unfinished and remain so. I am trying very very hard to change this! I have a sidebar on the right - please scroll down - full great web sites, articles, podcasts, etc. The tone of this blog is mostly unfocussed, and long may it remain so...
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